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One Day in The Life of an Age Group Parent
Guy Edson
(From a 2003 Newsletter)
My wife was off to a continuing ed class. My 12 year old daughter was at swim practice. I had the much needed chance to spend a couple extra hours catching up with some work at the office. That is, until my cell phone buzzed at 5:30. “Dad, can you come pick me up?” “What’s wrong?” I asked. “I got kicked out of swim practice,” she said. I was stunned! My daughter is a fairly standard 12 year old, as fully capable of getting into trouble as any other 12 year old – except at swim practice where she is unusually compliant and very coachable. I decided we would talk about it later and said, “Well, just come home with Coach Rob like you always do and we will talk about it when you get home.” “Rob said you have to come pick me up now,” she said.
The pool is 18 miles from my office by way of the most congested interstate in the whole metropolitan area. The last thing I wanted to do is drive 45 minutes out there and another 45 minutes back. My building anger focused on Coach Rob. I thought to myself, “OK, my daughter screwed up but just let her swim. It’s no big deal. Besides, why do I have to pay the price? If it really is that bad he should just make her sit out and then bring her home like usual. After all, that is what I would do.”
Important note: I am also a swimming coach and have been for nearly 30 years. Nevertheless, the parent side of me had taken over my thought process and I wanted to blame the coach for the inconvenience I was facing. “…the inconvenience I was facing.”
Looking for a way out I asked, “What did you do?” She told me she was three minutes late to practice and he wouldn’t let her in the water. “Three minutes? THREE minutes?” I asked. In my mind I was cursing at the coach. “How could you be three minutes late to practice? You get there 45 minutes before practice time!” I said. She told me was doing homework in the locker room and lost track of the time. “And he kicked Jackie out too,” she said. I asked, “Jackie was doing homework also?” “No, she was changing her swim suit and we came out together.”
At that point distant memories started coming back and with them rational thinking crept back into my brain. In my 30 years of coaching, how many times did multiples of 11 – 12 year old girls emerge from the locker rooms 3 minutes late and how many ridiculous excuses had I heard? Plenty. And how many times was it the same group of kids? All the time.
“If I were to ask Coach Rob if this was the first time you were late, what would he say?” I asked. I heard a faint “what?” I repeated, “If I were to ask Coach Rob if this was the first time you were late, what would he say? Have you been late before?” “Sometimes.”
And what did I do years ago with those who became chronically late by 3 minutes? I sent them back to the locker room, and told them to call their parents. This scene is all too familiar to me.
“OK,” I said, “I’ll be there in 40 to 45 minutes. I’ll be thinking of the consequences along the way.” As a last ditch effort for clemency and a play on my fatherly love, I heard my daughter faintly say, “I’m sorry.”
When I picked her up I was all smiles. And she lighted up right away. She might have been thinking I was going to be cool about this. I asked her what homework she was working on in the locker room and she told me it was math. “You’re pretty good at math, aren’t you?” I asked. “Get out a piece of paper and pencil and solve this problem: a man drives a car that gets 15 miles to the gallon. He has to drive his car 36 miles. If gas costs $1.79 a gallon, how much did the trip cost him?” She loves these kinds of problems and started dividing then multiplying and proudly came up with, “Four dollars and twenty nine cents!” “That sounds correct,” I said. That’s what it cost me to come pick you up and it’s coming out of your next allowance.” The rest of the trip home was on the quiet side.
The next day, Coach Rob reported to me that she was on the deck 15 minutes early and ready to go.
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Helping Your Young Child Set Goals
Goal setting for young swimmers is an important process that requires interaction of the parent, coach, and athlete. It is important to remember that for young swimmers the goal of goal setting is to learn how to set goals. The progression for learning how to set goals is based upon the age and competitive experience of the swimmer. In this issue we will look at one approach for introducing goals to 8 through 10 year olds.
There are many approaches to goal setting for younger swimmers. The following approach is presented because it is a little different from the “normal” routine of coach‑swimmer interaction and one that I personally find more rewarding for the parent‑coach‑athlete relationship.
With younger, inexperienced swimmers, generally ages 8 ‑ 10, goal setting needs to be carefully guided by adults. The purpose of goal setting with this age is for the young swimmer to learn what a goal is, that to achieve a goal a series of steps toward the goal must be taken, and that some amount of preparation and work is required to meet the goal. These are very powerful lifelong skills.
I think it is very important that children are successful in achieving goals at this stage. For this reason, the coach, who best knows the ability of the swimmer, should suggest goals to the parents who, in turn, guide their young swimmer to set goals well within the possibilities described by the coach. Goals should be objective and based upon time standards or performance standards. In addition, goals need to be short term goals aiming at completion in 4 to 6 weeks. A long term goal is a difficult concept for 8 ‑ 10 year olds.
Billy is a 9 year old who has been on the swim team for 18 months. He has all “B” times except for the 100 IM which he has an unofficial “C” time. He has been disqualified in his three 100 IM races because he has an illegal breaststroke kick. His best friend, neighbor, and swimming rival, John, began swimming at the same time as Billy but has achieved “A” times in the breaststroke and freestyle, several “B” times, and was recently moved to a more advanced group. Billy’s ambition is to swim in the same workout group with John. Billy’s dad and John’s dad are friends and weekend golf rivals. Coincidentally, John’s dad regularly beats Billy’s dad. Billy’s dad’s goal is to see Billy beat John.
What should Billy’s goals be and who should set them? Billy’s goals must not be based upon John. At this point in time John is a more accomplished swimmer. Perhaps he will always be more accomplished for a variety of reasons which will frustrate Billy if Billy’s goal is always to beat John. On the other hand, maybe John is temporarily bigger and stronger than Billy. As the boys reach and pass puberty Billy may become the bigger and stronger and more skilled of the two and beating John may not present an adequate challenge.
The coach should suggest several goals for Billy to Billy’s parents. These goals are based upon the coaches’ assessment of Billy’s ability to improve in the next two months. One suggested goal might be for Billy to make an “A” time in the 50 free. Currently, Billy is only 4 tenths of a second from an “A” time. A second goal might be to swim a legal 100 yard IM. The coach has been working on Billy’s breaststroke kick several times each week and is confident that Billy will have a legal kick in time for the next swim meet.
Why suggest these goals to the parents? Two reasons: 1) It is a good way for the parents and coach to communicate on the progress and future expectations for the young swimmer, and 2) the most important and most influential people in the young swimmer’s life are Mom and Dad. What better source is there in guiding the young swimmer towards setting goals?
How should parents discuss goals with young swimmers? I think the best way is to ask the young swimmer a series of questions designed to bring him to the goals suggested by the coach. A conversation may go something like this:
Parent: “Billy, our team is hosting a meet in six weeks. Do you have any goals for our meet?”
Billy: “What’s a goal?”
Parent: “A goal is something you want to do that you have never done before.”
Billy: [without hesitation] “I want to swim in John’s group!”
Parent: “Someday I think you will. What does it take to move up to that group?”
Billy: “Coach says I need an A time.”
Parent: “Do you know what your best time is?”
Billy: “No”
Parent: “Coach says you have 32.2 and that’s only 4 tenths of a second from an “A” time which is a 31.8. Would you like to make an “A” time?
Billy: “YEA!”
Parent: “Do you know how short 4 tenths of a second is?” [Demonstrates with stop watch.] “Coach says you can knock off those 4 tenths of a second just by streamlining better off the start and turn and by finishing with a long arm and strong kick. What are you going to work on in practice to help you make your goal?”
Billy: “I’m going to work on streamlining and finishing with a long arm and strong kick.”
Parent: “Great! I KNOW you’re going to make your goal! There is a dual meet with Fairport in three weeks. What do you think you would like to do in the 50 free in that meet?”
Billy: “An “A” time?”
Parent: “Right! Now let’s write down your goal.”
The next step is for Billy to write down his goal(s) on two pieces of paper. He should write his current best time, his goal, target date, and things he needs to work on in order to accomplish his goal.
His goal statement may look like this:
My Goal: 31.8 “A” time in the 50 free
When: February 17 home meet
Best Time: 32.2
Every day in practice: streamlining and good finishes
Billy should keep one at home in his room where he can look at it every day. Mom and Dad should ask Billy once every week or so how he is doing on his goal. The second copy he takes to swim practice to review with the coach. Then he can keep it in his locker or swim bag and look at it every day before practice.
Of course, it’s a wonderful thing if a young swimmer is aware enough of times, both his own and qualifying times, to set his own valid goals in addition to those suggested by the coach. If a swimmer sets a reachable goal it should be accepted by coach and parents. Most young swimmers however need the expert guidance of coach and parents to set obtainable goals. Remember, at this age it is vitally important that swimmers are able to accomplish their goals.
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The Marginally Motivated Swimmer
Guy Edson
ASCA Staff
The other day I was remembering a time when I was a much younger coach and the day I asked a swimmer to leave practice and “not to come back.” In recalling and thinking about this incident I believe there is a message for parents of older, aged 13 and above, lesser committed swimmers.
What was this swimmer doing that was so terrible? Nothing. He was doing nothing; and that was the problem. For whatever reason, he simply decided he wasn’t going to do the set I had prescribed and decided he was going to leave practice.
This 13 year old had a dismal attendance record making just a couple of workouts a week and when he did come there was minimal communication with me. He would arrive seconds before we began the first set and he would immediately leave after the last set. I only saw the mom one time; the dad, never. Quite simply, it appeared that he didn’t want to be there.
I thought about the incident throughout that evening and it was the first thing on my mind when I woke up in the next morning. I hated kicking a swimmer out of practice. I asked myself these questions:
Did I need to permanently dismiss him from the team?
Should I have just let him go without comment at the time or should I have taken the time to find out what was bothering him?
Should I have had a discussion with the parents long before the incident about what my expectations were and to find out what their expectations were?
Before I tackle those questions there are a couple of concepts I would like all parents to consider. First, one of the primary duties of the coach is to provide adversity for the athletes. That may sound like an unusual way to describe it but the reality is that a workout is not meant to be easy. It is meant to be a physical and mental challenge. Good coaches throw the challenge out there and then attempt to provide the environment where the athlete’s will to meet the challenge is high. At older ages and upper levels, say 13 and over at sectional and above level, coaches sometimes design entire workouts meant to make the athlete fail – temporarily fail. At lower levels, right down to novice level swimming, swimmers need to be exposed to sets that are difficult, perhaps so difficult that no one can achieve the set. Good coaches use these sets to build a desire in the athletes to achieve higher levels of physical and mental toughness. Good coaches know that being successful requires a combination of challenge and success in the workout environment and that the relative amount of each will change as the swimmer ages.
The second concept has two parts: the coach’s time and effort; and the athlete’s submissiveness – best described as the athlete’s willingness to release themselves to the coach. To whom should the coach give their time and effort? Answer: to those athletes who give themselves to the coach. The coach has limited time and energy and the fairest behavior of the coach is focusing on those who are ready to meet the adversity. Coaches simply do not have time to coddle and convince reluctant swimmers to do work while there are other swimmers willing and ready to go.
Now, back to the questions at hand. Did I need to dismiss him from the team entirely? In this case, Yes. But it should have been discussed with the parent the next day rather than shouted to him across the pool. Why dismiss him from the team? He had a poor history of effort, bad attendance, and it was not worth the team’s time to try change his work ethic. In a case where a swimmer had a history of good effort, and had shown a high degree of coachability – well, this situation wouldn’t have been an issue in the first place.
Should I have let him go without comment at the time? Yes. Running a workout where emotions are high is not the time to get into it with an athlete or the parent. It is better to discuss such things in a different environment at a different time.
Should I have take the time to find out what was bothering him? No. That would have been taking time from those in the water who were doing the work and that is where the coach’s focus needs to be.
Long before the incident should I have had a discussion with the parents about “expectations”? Absolutely Yes. This was a failure on my part – and the parents.
The bottom lines: There are adolescent swimmers who are of marginal ability who come to practice for a variety or reasons. Sometimes it’s friends. That’s a pretty good reason, but there has to be the willingness to work as well.
Sometimes it’s Mom and Dad making the child go to practice. There are good reasons and bad reasons for this. Good reasons include a sincere desire for the child to be involved in a wholesome activity. Bad reasons include a parent’s desire for the child to be a champion swimmer and earn a swimming scholarship when the child doesn’t have that talent.
Whatever the reasons, it is important for parents and swimmers and coaches to discuss their respective expectations with each other. Frankly, sometimes expectations just do not match up with what’s being offered or what is being done. And then it is time to think about moving on to another program or another activity.
Guy Edson is a Level 5 Age Group Coach and has enjoyed 5 years as a part time age group coach, 2 years as a full time age group coach, 8 years as a full time head coach, and 20+ years coaching novice/intermediate swimmers. (In that order.) And, 7 years as high school coach mixed in with the above. He has served as an ASCA staff member since 1988 where his favorite role is helping young coaches with everything from teaching techniques to designing workouts. He also manages ASCA’s Job Service program helping both coaches and employers with a wide range of needs including contract reviews, interviews, and relational and club structural issues.
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Training Aids:
Legitimate Tools Or Frivolous Fads?
If you talk to parents of swimmers from other teams, if you read swim publications, or if you watch swimmers during warm ups at swim meets, you will notice a variety of training aids that swimmers lug around. Let’s see, there are kick boards in every size and shape imaginable; there are tire tubes; there are paddles — boy are there paddles!, round ones, rectangular ones, contoured ones, ones with holes, incredibly large ones, ones that cover the forearms, ones that inflate around the whole lower arm, etc, etc.; there are webbed gloves made out of lycra or latex rubber; there are fins — standard department store types, expensive scuba shop types, short stubby ones, monofins, and fins cut in a variety of shapes; there are ankle weights, wrist weights, and even head weights; there are fiberglass rods velcroed to the legs; there are suits with pockets in them; there are plain old sneakers used on kick sets; there are plain old t-shirts; there are plain old, really old, swim suits — two or three or four worn at the same time; there is tubing; there are stretch cords; there are short pull buoys, long pull buoys, and pull buoys that can be filled with water; and on and on and on.
When you notice a 10 year old star swimmer from another team lugging around a training bag with surgical tubing exploding from the torn end of the bag, you ask, “Could this be the reason she always wins?” Do you want to go out and buy surgical tubing for your young swimmer?
Or, between long course and short course season you are contemplating your child’s swimming successes and short comings of the past season while you read an ad about a “revolutionary new” buoyancy device. Do you want to equip your child with it in time for the start of the season?
Who invents these things? What things really work and what things are commercial contrivances of questionable value? Can some of these devices do more harm than good? Should your child use some of these devices?
Most training aids are invented by coaches. There are hundreds, maybe thousands of training aids invented by coaches but only a few make it to commercial production. Most coaches do not invent a training aid for the profit potential but rather they are invented for the sake of improving an individual’s or team’s strength, speed, endurance, and/or technique.
Many coaches would add that training aids can do more than improve strength, endurance, and/or technique. They also add variety to a workout and help motivate swimmers.
What things really work? There are very few published independent studies done on
specific training aids to test their effectiveness in speed, strength, endurance, or technique enhancing qualities. (Actually, I could not find any published independent studies — but there might be some out there.)
But good coaches do not need studies to know that some things really do work. Most coaches use kickboards. Most coaches use pull buoys. Many coaches, but I’m not sure most coaches, use paddles. Same for fins. Fewer coaches use surgical tubing. Almost all coaches try nearly every training aid at least once but almost no one uses all the training aids all the time.
So what things really work? The answer is: most training aids, whether commercially produced or coach/home made, are effective to some degree when the coach and swimmer properly use them with respect to the developmental age of the swimmer, the psychological needs of the swimmer, the appropriate time during workout, and the appropriate time during the season. The answer also is: no training aid will work if not used properly.
Can some of these devices do more harm than good? The answer is a definite yes. No training aid is safe when improperly used. Most training aids are designed to increase resistance or to increase training speed. Excessive workloads with training aids can lead to overuse syndromes and injuries especially in younger children not physically mature.
Should your child use some of these devices? Who decides IF they should use training aids and if so, which aids to use? Questions like these are the reasons you and your Board of Directors hire a qualified professional coach. The coach makes these decisions based upon his or her experience and coaching education. If your coach is having your child use a training aid and you are concerned that use of that training aid may cause an injury, then speak directly to the coach about the extent and intensity of use for that training aid. If your coach is not using various training aids that you’ve seen or heard about and you are curious about, then once again speak with the coach.
When speaking with the coach keep these things in mind:
1. Approach the coach after practice or during office hours quietly and sincerely with an attitude of “Could you help me understand…”. Many of the communication problems between coach and parent arise from abrupt challenges to coaches judgment calls.
2. Coaches have selected favorite training aids and don’t like to be told they should be using additional or different methods. There is more than one way to accomplish a desired training effect and it is the coaches area of responsibility and authority to select that method.
3. There is a limited amount of workout time in the water and a coach must make decisions about the type of training aids to use and the amount of work using training aids. These things must fit in with an overall daily, weekly, and seasonal workout plan.
4. Smart coaches are not quick to jump on the bandwagon when a revolutionary new training device comes along. They want to speak with other coaches, observe its use, perhaps try it themselves, begin using it on a limited trial basis, and evaluate its effectiveness before using it on a regular basis with the whole team.
5. One of the great strengths of American Swimming is in the diversity of approaches coaches use to develop young swimmers. From this diversity comes great new ideas. Your coach may be a future Olympic coach and her use, limited use, or lack of use of a training device is her special approach to training your young swimmer.
6. Many training aids are not designed for young age groupers to use. Coaches like to introduce various training aids in a progression following the swimmer’s developmental age and ability to handle greater workloads.
7. Some training aids have a dual purpose, they can be used at low resistance for stroke development, and they can be used at high intensity for speed, strength, and endurance development. A coach may use this type of training aid primarily for skill development with younger ages and gradually use it for more intense work as the swimmer grows.
8. Motivation is a large factor in the use of training aids. If a swimmer gets to use all the “toys” at an early age they will become bored in years to come as they keep using the same “toys”. Smart coaches use this as a reason for the gradual introduction of training aids.
These are not easy issues for coaches, athletes, and parents. Questions about “how much”, “how hard”, and “what type” are part of the sport. Coaches will make decisions based on firsthand experience, information from other coaches, and published reports. Whatever the decisions are, one thing stands out, there are no quick answers and no short cuts. A new super duper revolutionary training aid will not transform your age group swimmer into a superstar. And even if there was such a thing, what would it mean? In age group swimming we want steady growth, a sound aerobic base, excellent stroke development, and an appreciation for the relationship between day to day effort and the realization of goals.
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Weight Training for Age Group Swimmers
By Jack Wilmore, Ph.D.,
Physical Education professor at the University of Texas and Austin.
Generally, youngsters adapt well to the same type of training routine used by the mature athlete. One area of concern, though, is the use of weight training to develop muscular strength and muscular endurance. For many years, young boys and girls were discouraged from using weights for fear that they might injure themselves and prematurely stop their growth processes.
Results of animal studies suggest that heavy resistance exercise leads to stronger, broader, and more compact bone. However, since it is nearly impossible to load these animals to the same extent as youngsters, it has not been practical to design an experiment that accurately defines the risks associated; therefore the potential for injury and structural damage from heavy resistance appears to be extremely low. Still, since the future of the youngsters is at stake, it is appropriated to take a conservative approach until additional studies can be conducted.
Thus, to strength-train a young athlete, a program using low weights and high repetitions would be preferred to one using high weights and low repetitions. One of the safest techniques for strength training in youngsters would be to use the isokinetic concept of matching resistance to the force applied, so that the youngster does not have to contend with actual weights, such as barbells and dumbbells. Cybex, Orthoton, Mini-Gym, and Hydra-Gym are examples of isokinetic equipment.
It has been suggested that since young prepubescent boys have relatively low circulating androgen levels, there is no reason to expect them to benefit from strength training prior to adolescence. Several recent studies have demonstrated that prepubescent boys can not only participate in this form of activity but also can gain substantial increases in strength.
In a study conducted by Sewall and Micheli, prepubescent boys and girls took part in a nine-week progressive resistance strength training program, 25 – 30 minutes a day, three days a week (J Pediatr Orthop 1986;6:1234 – 6). They experienced a mean strength increase of 42.9%, compared with a 9.5% increase in a non-training control group.
Weltman and his colleagues followed 16 prepubescent boys (mean age 8.2 years) through a 14-week strength program using isokinetic techniques with hydraulic resistance (Med Sci Sports Exerc 1986;18:S55). Isokinetic strength increased 18 – 37% in these young boys. Only one injury was recorded causing the boy to miss three training sessions. In the control group of 10 boys six injuries were recorded as the result of activities of daily living. None of the boys had any evidence of damage to bone, or the muscle structure as a result of strength training. Form the results of these studies, one can conclude that young, prepubescent boys and girls can increase strength from using resistance exercise, and that few risks of injury are associated with such exercise. However, it should be noted that in both of these studies, free weights were not used. The resistance was provided by pneumatic (CAM-II), hydraulic (e.g., Hydra-Fitness and Orthotron), or fixed stacked weights (e.g., Universal Gym or Nautilus). The use of free weights provides a much greater potential for serious injury.